Get Up & Move!

On the calendar for Mental Health Month today is “Movement matters” so it’s all about getting off your duff and doing something physically active. It doesn’t have to be that strenuous and you can make it fun.

For example, around 3 years or so ago, I picked up a set of juggling balls and taught myself how to juggle. Hey, if I can do it, you can. I could do the 3-ball cascade in about 2-3 weeks. And then I got Sena in the game. If you can find a partner and are halfway coordinated, you can juggle as a pair! It’s a great way to stay fit and it doesn’t feel like exercise. It feels like you’re playing—because you are.

The weather is pretty nice lately, so in the last few days I’ve been going out for a walk around the block. If you do that after dinner, you can call it a fart walk because that happens naturally. That’s good for your system. You may want to do that with people you know pretty well. The last part of my walk is up a pretty steep grade and I feel it in my shins. And I pass the mailbox pod on the way back, which gives me an opportunity to pick up our junk mail.

I do regular exercise like stretching, planks, using a stair stepper, riding the exercise bicycle, and doing something called a single leg sit to stand. You sit in a chair, extend one leg and attempt to rise to a stand on your other leg. It takes practice and you can cheat by putting a pillow or towels on the chair to make it easier.

Another trick I recently discovered but can’t do is a little football end zone dance called the Griddy. It was invented by Allen Davis and further popularized by professional NFL players. Do you have to wear special shoes? It looks cool, but so far, it’s beyond me. If you have any tips on how I can master this, drop a comment.

May is Mental Health Month & Today is Food Appreciation Day!

We need to cover food appreciation during this month because this Mental Health Awareness Month and it’s on the calendar for today. One of the really important subjects connected to this is to also raise awareness about frailty in older adults A recently published Australian study about frailty in seniors found that we need to tackle every older person we can catch (which is all of them because they’re generally pretty slow) and force feed them beets, kale, and apple cider vinegar in large quantities.

Of course not! Actually, the study is a comprehensive consensus statement about the need for clear recommendations for preventing and managing frailty in community-dwelling old farts:

S.Chopra, I.Tornvall, N.Reid, et al., “Australian Consensus Statement on the Prevention and Management of Frailty Among Community-Dwelling Older Adults: A Modified Delphi Study,” Medical Journal of Australia224, no. 5 (2026): e70182, https://doi.org/10.5694/mja2.70182.

Seriously (for a moment anyway) the main recommendations are below with the dietary factors in bold-face type:

“Main Recommendations

  • A lifelong approach to health promotion for frailty prevention should focus on raising awareness, annual screening (65+ years) and personalised counselling around accessible health behaviours to manage chronic comorbidities.
  • An individualised, balanced, protein-rich diet is likely to be effective in delaying the onset of frailty. Protein–energy malnutrition and nutritional deficiencies should be identified and treated. A nutrition care plan that considers the relaxation of dietary restrictions aligned with goals of care should be planned for older adults with severe frailty.
  • Progressive, individualised and ongoing exercise should be a combination of aerobic and resistance exercise, and balance and functional training tailored to frailty level and supervised by professionals.
  • Social prescribing for older adults should be co-designed with a link worker to support meaningful, accessible and culturally appropriate activities that foster social engagement, with plans customised to the individual’s frailty level.
  • A comprehensive, multidisciplinary medication review tailored to the older adult’s health status, preferences and frailty degree helps optimise medication use, minimise harm and support functional independence across all stages of frailty.
  • Older adults with severe frailty need a regularly reviewed, personalised care plan, which involves carers in decision-making, supports advance care planning and ensures high-quality end-of-life care.”

It makes sense to make a strong effort to delay the onset of frailty in every way possible. Where dietary factors come in is to do your level best to avoid eating only Slim Jims and M&Ms. Bigfoot is not a role model.

You have to choose your foods carefully. There are all kinds of people out there who’ll tell you that sugar snap pea pods are edible. Don’t bet your life on it, as the scientific video below will prove. I guess you could prevent jaw muscle frailty by trying to chew them.

There are some who recommend slowing down your eating. I was born the slowest eater in the world (in fact that’s what one person called me a long time ago). The paradoxical thing in my case is that when I found out I’d gained 20 pounds after I retired 6 years ago, we started eating a lot less. Before that, Sena was always done eating way before I was. But after we started eating smaller and healthier meals, I caught up with her and I’ll sometimes be finished eating before she is. Figure that one out.

Anyhow, it’s my privilege to pass along to you the definitive guide to cooking by the chief chef himself, Red Green. Here’s to healthy eating!

May is Mental Health Month!

May is Mental Health Month and I’ve been going through my blog to find posts on psychotherapy. One of the reasons I did this is because I read the commentary by Dr. Allen Frances on psychotherapy and Artificial Intelligence (AI chatbots) the other day, “Psychotherapies Can No Longer Afford to Compete With Each Other.”

Dr. Frances’ article is right on time. He reminds me of all the psychotherapy modalities I had to learn about as a resident and then later made blog posts and YouTube videos highlighting the basics. You can type “psychotherapy” in the search box and find them.

And speaking about mental health, Dr. George Dawson has an excellent post pertinent to the topic.

The blue bunting is a symbol of wisdom, self-mastery, resilience, and spiritual realization. We should keep that in mind when it comes to psychotherapy and mental health.

Dirty Dozen on Psychodynamic Psychotherapy in WordPress Shortcode

May is Mental Health Month! Have I said that already? Anyway, this is yet another one of my Dirty Dozen lectures. It’s on Psychodynamic Psychotherapy.

It’s in WordPress shortcode. A few pointers: click in the lower right hand corner of the slide if you want to view the slides full size. Use the directional arrows on your keyboard to click through the slides. You can also just use the arrow handles on the slides if you don’t want to see them full size. If you see weblinks, right click the links to open them in a new tab.

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Dirty Dozen on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in WordPress Shortcode

In keeping with May being Mental Health Month, here’s another slide set on psychotherapy. This one is on the basics of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Once again, it’s in WordPress shortcode. A few pointers: click in the lower right hand corner of the slide if you want to view the slides full size. Use the directional arrows on your keyboard to click through the slides. You can also just use the arrow handles on the slides if you don’t want to see them full size.

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Dirty Dozen on Common Elements of Psychotherapy in WordPress Shortcode

In observance of May being Mental Health Month, this is one of my Dirty Dozen lectures. It’s on the elements that are shared among some of the important psychotherapy methods.

It’s in WordPress shortcode. A few pointers: click in the lower right hand corner of the slide if you want to view the slides full size. Use the directional arrows on your keyboard to click through the slides. You can also just use the arrow handles on the slides if you don’t want to see them full size.

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May is Mental Health Month

May is Mental Health Month. This would be a good month for me to practice giving myself and others grace. Here’s a link to a very nice article about grace. It’s really about giving each other a break from slamming one another and letting go—sort of like what you need to do in juggling. The author of the article on grace suggests a short list of ways to practice grace. They’re just the guidance I welcome for Mental Health Month and any other month for that matter.

The one about compassion and forgiving myself and others is difficult to do. I should do it anyway.

Buttoning my lip before criticizing, complaining, or venting other harsh utterances is a nice way to avoid the slamming mode I see in the news every day.

It’s tough not to expect the worst from others, especially when you read the news. Hey, let’s stop reading the news.

I don’t get much recognition, and that’s actually a good thing. Sometimes the last thing I need is attention.

I can think of many persons who have probably gently and silently helped me over the years.

While it may feel good to get my digs in on people I don’t agree with, it’s not satisfying for very long. People do remember how you made them feel.

Let’s give each other grace. We all need a break.