Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Week started January 20, 2025. There will be several very worthwhile events, many of which are listed here.
Isabel Wilkerson, winner of the Pulitzer Prize and National Humanities Medal, will deliver the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Distinguished Lecture on February 5, 2025 at the University of Iowa Medical Education and Research Facility (MERF); Prem Sahai Auditorium. General admission is free although it’s a ticketed event, more information here.
I was searching the web for articles about whether and when Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. visited Iowa and found one that sparked personal memories of defeat, which Dr. King talked about when he visited my alma mater, Iowa State University in Ames in 1960, where he said:
“The Negro must not defeat or humiliate the white man, but must gain his confidence. Black supremacy would be as dangerous as white supremacy. I am not interested in rising from a position of disadvantage to a position of advantage.”
This quote was in an article entitled “Mentality Has Outrun Morality” in the January 23, 1960 issue of the Ames Tribune.
It reminded me of two episodes in my life which left me with a strong sense of defeat in the context of racism.
One of them was ages ago when I was a young man and somehow got involved in a pickup game of basketball with guys who were all white. I was the only black man. This was in Iowa. The members of my team were those I worked with. The opponents were men my co-workers challenged to a game of basketball. I had never been in such a contest before. I think we lost but what I remember most vividly is a comment shouted by one of the opponents: “Don’t worry about the nigger!” I sat on the bleachers for the rest of the game while they played on. I remember feeling defeated—and wondering whose team I was really on.
The other incident was also long ago (but I was a little older), when I was a member of a debating team at Huston-Tillotson College in Texas (now Huston-Tillotson University, one of America’s HBCUs). We were all black. We were debating the question of whether capital punishment was a deterrent or not to capital crime. I couldn’t get a word in edgewise with my opponent. He just kept a running speech going, punctuated with many “whereas” points, one of which I’m pretty sure included the overrepresentation of black men on death row. I had never been in a debate before. My professor remarked that my opponent won the debate by being bombastic—for which there didn’t seem to be a countermeasure. I remember feeling defeated—and wondered if I was on the wrong team.
There’s a lot of emphasis on defeating others in sports, politics, religion, and the like. On a personal level, I learned that defeat didn’t make me feel good. I’m pretty sure most people feel the same way.
Dr. King also said “We can’t sit and wait for the coming of the inevitable.”
I’m not sure exactly what he meant by “the coming of the inevitable.” What did he mean by the “emerging new order”? Did he mean the second coming? Did he mean the extinction of the human race when we all kill each other? Or did he mean the convergence of humanity’s insight into the need for cooperation with the recognition of the planet’s diminishing resources?
I don’t know. I’m just an old man who hopes things will get better.
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